lie in a relationship

I am thinking that it's right or wrong to lie to your partner... i did this some time for some reason ... For better or for worse, our romantic relationships are not always as straightforward as we would like them to be.... Love creates both happiness and heartache, opportunities and constraints, joy and sorrow...

is it normal(right) to lie in a relationship ???                           
if you are looking answer my answer is YES....
but not 100% sure ...ask yourself and you will find out.
there are many reason that i lied to my partner
and may be same case for you also...
you can't afford to always tell the truth if you want to keep your relationship healthy..

Women say they want men to be honest but  The truth is, women force men to lie..
most common question woman ask is "What are you thinking about ?" and you simply say the truth "nothing " and the response you got from woman are " you are lying " because if you tell truth also that doesn't matter , the fact matter here is what she really wants to hear and that's the truth... so here man start lying create some story or Take her hands, look deep into her eyes with all the supreme male confidence you can muster and tell her she's the most desirable, beautiful woman you've ever seen....
Remember, she wants you to lie. She expects you to lie. It's all part of the mental games she forces you to play.
sometimes You may feel that it's easier to lie rather than experience/endure your partner's emotional reaction
you don't want your partner to get hurt. In this instance, you're not protecting your partner from something that you've done that might be hurtful to him/her. Rather, you're trying to shield your partner from something you discovered  or an opinion that you believe would be upsetting.. it's normal in my opinion and necessary also for healthy relationship.... but what's the limits ...
there should be some boundary like why you lying to your partner and what's the motive ...  truth is the best policy but not always ....your views most welcome

Babri Masjid vs Ram Janmabhoomi

We are waiting for the Supreme court order for the Ram Janmabhoomi Babri Masjid issue.We have to accept the court order or go to higher court. Ayodhya issue was in the news for last 20 years.Now it is the time for final verdict.

I am thinking on this topic that there is any way An acceptable solution is possible for this issue??????....
Many good solution but which is going by LAW i don't know ...........

FIRST :-

In history it is noted that before India got independence, all Hindus and Muslims pray for their God at the same place. And there was a railing between the masjid and Ram Chabutara. So, this can be the best practice. Both Hindus and Muslims will get satisfaction from this decision. Both have to understand each other's holly feeling. It should not be like 'I am Hindu so I think that Ram Temple should be there and I am Muslim so I think that masjid should be there'........

SECOND :-

It is that the government should established such memorial at the disputed site that could be reminds the citizens of the country about the diverse culture of the country. It can be a museum, or a park, a Garden, or a library, or an educational institute or so...on which could be commonly used by all the communities of the country.....
However, after establishment of the memorial of communal harmony of India, it should be protected in such a way that no miscreant element should be able to create any disturbance at the place.

THIRD :-  Hindus should apologise to Indian Muslims for demolishing the Babri Masjid. Then, Muslims should accept the apology and hand over the former location of the Babri Masjid place to Hindus.

This is brilliant. Islam is a religion that does not give any relevance to where you pray to Allah.

Hindus, whether they like it or not, did something that was clearly against the law
Unlike Islam, Hinduism,has reverence for places and locations, and Indian Muslims should respect that, and hand over the place to Hindus.

FORTH :- 

The only acceptable solution to the problem will be to maintain status at the place. Leave it as it is where it is level.

FIFTH :-
This is going to be a serious issue .The only way out of it is that just don't build any thing .What you gone do with temple /Masjid at that place just hold your sentiments look forward to a better future .God never resides in building but in your mind.... A better option would be to plant trees all over the  area since environment today needs more protection than anything else. FOLLOW THE GREEN WAY

SIXTH :- YOU TELL ME ......
STOP fighting in the name of religion.......

peepli live

Last Thursday me and my friend deepak decide to go for movie and choice is peepli live becasue od Aamir khan production....And we enjoyed the movie lot ...

After seeing movie it's difficult to believe that it's first movie of Anusha Rizvi as director...the subject shows in movie is very serious and it's not contain one subject the movie rise lot of issues with hypocrisy and humor of society.
The film is about two destitute farmers in an Indian village facing the risk of losing their land for failing to repay their bank credit. When one of them announces his decision to commit suicide so that his family can claim a government support, his house is soon besieged by TV reporters, politicians, police, gawkers and businessmen.

Side line story also shows how media rise one issue based on TRP , how one party mingle with opposition party based on vote banks ,central and state government fighting over issue and blaming each others. film shown vote-hungry politicians and the over-enthusiastic, TRP-seeking desperate electronic media jostling for eyeballs.

movie makes a far greater impact than a mere documentary, had it tackled the burning issue with in a delightfully humorous manner.It's a well penned and well executed film that deals with a serious issue in a witty and entertaining manner.

AT last i can go and watch movie ..... enjoy and think...