तूम मदहोश हो वहा पे "नवीन" आशियाने में , हम भीमशगूल है यहाँ ज़िंदगी के मयखाने में 

लेकिन मेरी अनकही सी बातो में या फिर भूले हुए से ज़ज़्बातो में  

मुझे ये लगता है सायद आज भी मुझमे जिंदा हो तुम.

पीछे छोड़ आया हु मै वो लम्हे जो तेरे साथ बिताये थे , जहा कही हम दोनों ने ख्वाब सजाये थे
लेकिन मेरे विचारो की अजीब सी उलझन में ,या फिर कही मेरे अंतमन की कसमकश में

मुझे ये लगता है सायद आज भी मुझमे जिंदा हो तुम.

मिटा दिया मैंने तेरा नाम अपनी जिंदगी की किताब से , भूल चूका  तेरी सब बाते
लेकिन मेरी धड़कन की तान में , या फिर मेरी नज़र के आईने में कही 

मुझे ये लगता है सायद आज भी मुझमे जिंदा हो तुम

तेरी महक जो आती थी मेरे सांसो से उसको मिटा दिया है , देख ले मेरे हाथ मैंने तेरी लकीर को हटा दिया है
लेकिन मेरे यादो के समुन्दर की गहराई में , या फिर मेरी महत्वकान्छा के ऊँचे पहाडो में


मुझे ये लगता है सायद आज भी मुझमे जिंदा हो तुम

Right Balance In Life

Upon flipping a coin ten times and having ten successive "heads" as an outcome, is heads or tails more likely on the eleventh toss? Surely it's tails? Wrong! It is a 50/50 chance of course! Every time!


You may have fallen into this trap before - the "Gambler's Fallacy" - where there is a tendency to think that future probabilities are influenced by past events.

Judgement errors happen to everyone regardless of age, gender, intelligence or education. The brain is sifting through many hundreds of subconscious processes even if we are only concentrating on one thing at a time. Misplaced judgments is a fundamental principle behind the ideas of motivation and success.

One thing is sure that you cannot keep everyone happy and at times you need to choose or prioritize whose happiness is most important to you. It is these decisions which set the pace of your life. It is these decisions which reflect your values and principles.

If you are not happy, you cannot make others happy, howsoever hard you may try. It is like, love yourself and respect yourself to be loved and respected by others.

We all have gone through this dilemma at one or another stage of our life, when we have to choose between the happiness of our family and our professional growth and have to sacrifice one for another. You need both love and support of your family and success and growth in your professional life (in your career). You cannot give your 100% to your family and 0% to your profession and you cannot give 0% to your family and 100% to your profession. It is like Game Theorem, wherein the actual size of market will remain same and loss of one will be gain of another and it is up to the individual to set the balance.

You cannot have control on your birth.and same way you cannot have control on your death but one thing you can control the way you live. Once you are in this world and grown-up enough to understand, who you are, you start making choices. At that stage you should not bother about anyone except your parents. Once you complete your basic qualification, your schooling, you start making choices and here whatever choice you make or the decision that you take, will have long-lasting effect in your life. Then you choose area of your interest and followed by your decision about the type of career that you want. You choose to get married. You choose to have kids. Now, for you your family consists of your parents, your spouse and your kids. Sometimes, you can have "Conflict of Interest" in these family members as well.

Love, care, understanding and togetherness, all these are required in life but along with these things, you need many other things in life and for that you need money. You don't need to be a billionaire or the wealthiest person in the world, but you need fair amount of money / wealth to get the basic necessities of life, which can be as basic as food, shelter and cloths....  

so make pritory in your life and keep in mind that balance is key of success.......

lie in a relationship

I am thinking that it's right or wrong to lie to your partner... i did this some time for some reason ... For better or for worse, our romantic relationships are not always as straightforward as we would like them to be.... Love creates both happiness and heartache, opportunities and constraints, joy and sorrow...

is it normal(right) to lie in a relationship ???                           
if you are looking answer my answer is YES....
but not 100% sure ...ask yourself and you will find out.
there are many reason that i lied to my partner
and may be same case for you also...
you can't afford to always tell the truth if you want to keep your relationship healthy..

Women say they want men to be honest but  The truth is, women force men to lie..
most common question woman ask is "What are you thinking about ?" and you simply say the truth "nothing " and the response you got from woman are " you are lying " because if you tell truth also that doesn't matter , the fact matter here is what she really wants to hear and that's the truth... so here man start lying create some story or Take her hands, look deep into her eyes with all the supreme male confidence you can muster and tell her she's the most desirable, beautiful woman you've ever seen....
Remember, she wants you to lie. She expects you to lie. It's all part of the mental games she forces you to play.
sometimes You may feel that it's easier to lie rather than experience/endure your partner's emotional reaction
you don't want your partner to get hurt. In this instance, you're not protecting your partner from something that you've done that might be hurtful to him/her. Rather, you're trying to shield your partner from something you discovered  or an opinion that you believe would be upsetting.. it's normal in my opinion and necessary also for healthy relationship.... but what's the limits ...
there should be some boundary like why you lying to your partner and what's the motive ...  truth is the best policy but not always ....your views most welcome

Babri Masjid vs Ram Janmabhoomi

We are waiting for the Supreme court order for the Ram Janmabhoomi Babri Masjid issue.We have to accept the court order or go to higher court. Ayodhya issue was in the news for last 20 years.Now it is the time for final verdict.

I am thinking on this topic that there is any way An acceptable solution is possible for this issue??????....
Many good solution but which is going by LAW i don't know ...........

FIRST :-

In history it is noted that before India got independence, all Hindus and Muslims pray for their God at the same place. And there was a railing between the masjid and Ram Chabutara. So, this can be the best practice. Both Hindus and Muslims will get satisfaction from this decision. Both have to understand each other's holly feeling. It should not be like 'I am Hindu so I think that Ram Temple should be there and I am Muslim so I think that masjid should be there'........

SECOND :-

It is that the government should established such memorial at the disputed site that could be reminds the citizens of the country about the diverse culture of the country. It can be a museum, or a park, a Garden, or a library, or an educational institute or so...on which could be commonly used by all the communities of the country.....
However, after establishment of the memorial of communal harmony of India, it should be protected in such a way that no miscreant element should be able to create any disturbance at the place.

THIRD :-  Hindus should apologise to Indian Muslims for demolishing the Babri Masjid. Then, Muslims should accept the apology and hand over the former location of the Babri Masjid place to Hindus.

This is brilliant. Islam is a religion that does not give any relevance to where you pray to Allah.

Hindus, whether they like it or not, did something that was clearly against the law
Unlike Islam, Hinduism,has reverence for places and locations, and Indian Muslims should respect that, and hand over the place to Hindus.

FORTH :- 

The only acceptable solution to the problem will be to maintain status at the place. Leave it as it is where it is level.

FIFTH :-
This is going to be a serious issue .The only way out of it is that just don't build any thing .What you gone do with temple /Masjid at that place just hold your sentiments look forward to a better future .God never resides in building but in your mind.... A better option would be to plant trees all over the  area since environment today needs more protection than anything else. FOLLOW THE GREEN WAY

SIXTH :- YOU TELL ME ......
STOP fighting in the name of religion.......

peepli live

Last Thursday me and my friend deepak decide to go for movie and choice is peepli live becasue od Aamir khan production....And we enjoyed the movie lot ...

After seeing movie it's difficult to believe that it's first movie of Anusha Rizvi as director...the subject shows in movie is very serious and it's not contain one subject the movie rise lot of issues with hypocrisy and humor of society.
The film is about two destitute farmers in an Indian village facing the risk of losing their land for failing to repay their bank credit. When one of them announces his decision to commit suicide so that his family can claim a government support, his house is soon besieged by TV reporters, politicians, police, gawkers and businessmen.

Side line story also shows how media rise one issue based on TRP , how one party mingle with opposition party based on vote banks ,central and state government fighting over issue and blaming each others. film shown vote-hungry politicians and the over-enthusiastic, TRP-seeking desperate electronic media jostling for eyeballs.

movie makes a far greater impact than a mere documentary, had it tackled the burning issue with in a delightfully humorous manner.It's a well penned and well executed film that deals with a serious issue in a witty and entertaining manner.

AT last i can go and watch movie ..... enjoy and think...

mercy killing or mercy death

I am reading newspaper and found that one lady from karanataka (HB Karibasamma, a 70-year-old woman) also filed a case for mercy killing due to illness.
Karibasamma is suffering from intervertebral disc prolapse, commonly known as slip disc. The ailment affects the spine, tearing its outer fibrous ring and swelling the soft central portion. The tears in the disc ring may result in inflammatory chemical mediators which cause severe pain. Karibasamma, who is also diabetic, is suffering from the ailment for the past 10- 11 years.She had been giving representations to various authorities seeking permission to end her life from 2003.

She is asking it form 2003 and still wating for court to grant the right to die with dignity . but still no progress in this case and many other similar cases.

I am thinking about this and internet found one other person who's also filed a case
(SV Srinivas Rao seeking its permission for mercy death for himself and the rest of the family)
SV Srinivas Rao had taken a huge amount as loan from a city bank which he found unable to repay. There were also several cases pending against him like murder of Naveena, a lady advocate, by her lover.

SV Srinivas Rao requested the court that after the mercy killing, his house should be given away to some charitable trust.He also appealed to the court to dismiss all cases pending against him

Both are totally different condition and both person demanding same things , there is no golden rule as such so i can say mercy killing is right or wrong.
It's extremely confusing and difficult also to reach any concrete conclusion. It is such a long standing and controversial debate which has no end because both the groups of thought have hundreds of arguments in pros and cons.

So first let us know what kind of killing this is.
I have traced out two definitions by surfing the Internet:
(1) An easy or painless death or intentional ending of the life of a person suffering from incurable or painful disease at the patient’s request.
(2) The intentional termination of the life of one human being by another.

But question still in my mind that "Mercy killing should be legalized."

i am strongly against the legalization of mercy killing due to numerous reasons
 it is very traumatizing for a family memeber to decide whether a person should live or not, because i believe that the right to take lives lies solely with the one who gave us the life in the first place-God.
legalizing mercy killing we will be giving a weapon that can be used as a cover-up for cold blooded murder. 
One may argue that voluntary euthanasia could be legalized but for that a patient has to be mentally prepared to accept the fact that his life will be terminated.Thus,the level of competence comes in, and competence cannot be defined or determined.also,sometimes a patient can be put under psychological pressure or brainwashed to believe that there is no chance left and thus forced to consent to voluntary euthanasia, to fulfil the ulterior motives of accomplices, family members or any person involved.

Now I look these thing in different way and i totally disagree with above comments

AS likely as this decision can be painfully traumatic for a family member.
Families of individuals suffering with such diseases see their bright, happy relative reduced to a shadow of their former self. Their loved one suffers a slow and painful death. Surely, it is kinder to put a mother, father, brother or sister out of their misery and allow them to die a peaceful death, as is their last wish.

Human beings are independent biological entities, and as an adult, have the right to take and carry out decisions about themselves.
God gave us life to treasure and we should not waste it by any means-euthanasia or just plain suicide-and I agree, but God also gave us free will ( the power of making free choices that are unconstrained by external circumstances or by an agency such as fate or divine will, as defined by the online free dictionary). So that means that it is in our own free will whether to keep living or take our life. If one is suffering from an incurable disease and that it is causing him great pain, then it is only rightful and merciful if he is allowed to end his agony by means of Mercy,
some reason by listed below.

Rights of the individual
Pain & Suffering
Quality of life; risks of criminalization
Animal rights

Again create a lot of thought in my mind ..... still not able to reach end the debate..... but can say it's depends on case to case and person to person.......

Mehangai TAB (1974) and AAJ (2010) SAME

And AAJ

Taller buildings but shorter temper

George Carlin, comedian of the 70s and 80s whose wife recently passed away, wrote the following eloquent and appropriate piece on our times:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more
knowledge , but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've
been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window
and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

THINK ABOUT THIS

A man was polishing his new car; his 4 yr old son picked up a
stone &
Scratched on the side of the car. In anger, the furious Man
took his child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he
was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to
multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....with painful eyes he
asked
Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt
and speechless.
He went back to the car and kicked it many times.

Devastated by his own actions... sitting in front of the car he
looked at the scratches,
His son had written 'I LOVE YOU DADDY'.
Next day that man committed suicide...

Anger and Love have no limits...Always remember....
"Things are to be used and people are to be loved"

But the problem in today's world is.....

"People are being USED & Things are being LOVED"
THINK ABOUT THIS................!!!!!!!!!!

!!!!!!!

?The Best Comparison?

one of The Best Comparison i come across...... 

Love Marriage Arranged Marriage Resembles? procedural programming? language. We have some set of functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like. Similar to? object oriented programming? approach. We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The functions are added to supplement the main program. The functions can be added or deleted. Family system hangs because hardware (called Parents ?) is not responding. Compatible with hardware ?(Parents ). You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life. You are a team member under project leader (parents) so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life. Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc. All these features are covered in the SRS (System Req. Specification) as required features. Love Marriage is like? Windows? , beautiful n seductive.... Yet one never knows when it? willcrash ....? if crashes that's the end Arranged Marriage is like? Unix .... Boring n colorless... but still extremely? reliable ?n? robust . ?May crash but easy to recover

Buhe Bariyan ultimate song

TERRORISM VS NAXALISM

There are some more problems which India suffers from and which have proved themselves to be the top class priority demanding obstacles in order to clear the road to reach the success sooner. Not only India but the whole world today is a victim of these things, but India has proved herself to be an exception. I am sure that till now, it was not a very clear one. Let me now talk about those two things which are really very big hindrances in the path of India's successThey are NOT like economic problem, population problem etc.. BUT DIFFERENT AS Naxalism and Terrorism. What are they?
Terrorism basically means non-legitimate operations which are violent in nature and are made to kill others. Even naxalism is the same thing but what creates a difference is their positions in the nation. It is just like the external and internal type of thing. Terrorism is the violent and ill-legitimate thing which terrorizes the nation from outside and naxalism is something which engulfs the country from the inside.
We are no more safe with that mentality. Today every son fears to let his father go outside in the suburbs during the night time. No one knows, we can die just the next second. Yes this was always true. We could die anytime, but today it is not because of accident, it can be naxalism or terrrorism.

Now let us talk about the problems. Which one is more danger? Terrorism or naxalism. Both are equally danger because there is no substitute for death. Death finishes the lives and leaves an impact of it in many other people's life as well.terrorism is that who attacks an unarmed individual and basically those who create fear and panic amongst the aam junta.
The belief that violence or its threat will be effective, and usher in change. Another way of saying this is: the belief that violent means justify the ends.Terrorism is taken as the activities done basically by organizations such as Alquaida and Taliban.On the other hand naxalism also stretches it's hands to our collars and it threatens the piece of our lives. naxalities are the one from tribal schedule, and they had their own demand for the welfare of their society.The cause of terrorism may be different but the causes of naxalism are more or less always same. Why does naxalism exist. It is because of social factors like poverty, unemployment, and racial discrimination. According to an estimation, if corruption keeps persisting as it persists today then in not more than a decade about 30% of the people would have become naxalites or would be having some connection with them.


Naxalism and terrorism are something about which we fear to talk about even.Naxals should be treated like any other terrorists. They should be apprehended or killed. That would teach a lesson to all those who take on the law! Initially there was sympathy for the Naxals as they professed to espouse the cause of the poor villagers and tribals. But when they start killing policemen and innocent people, they lose all right to sympathy. And ther supporters too become supporters of terrorism.  
And the worst part is our politics, even home minister refused to accept them as terrorists. like Union Home Minister P Chidambaram has said that Naxalism is not the same as terrorism in Jammu and Kashmir and mentioned that the Maoists, who are creating problems in the north-east India should be treated as an entirely different entity.He has also urged the Naxals o give up violence and hold peace talks with government. Chidambaram said that the Naxals were not demanding for secession with India whereas this is the aim of the terrorists of Jammu and Kashmir.
Some political parties are supporting Naxalites from outside and some are watching it as mute spectators. We have social activists, thinkers and authors like Arundhati Roy who is openly supporting the Naxals and glorifying them through her articles. The media is too keen taking interviews of these Naxalites.
It is time the Govt. wakes up and startstaking action, instead of just making statements. The Naxals should be invited for talks, if they don't respond, then 'bullet for bullet' is the only answer. Also, hopefully all the self-professed intellectuals will stop their support for these killers.
Initially and still some set of society have sympathy for them as they are recognised as the tribals and poor people without any resources to live. But now, with their heinous acts of killing innocent people, have lost all rights of sympathy.
 
At last i can say that :- Same wine in different bottles. So the lable has just changed but content remain the same.Anti soclal power hungry elements get attracted to this sort of wine, who feel that their life is worthless and that they should make other people life worthless.naxal problem is much bigger than cross border terrorism...Therefore, the nation should tackle it with the same degree of seriousness as in case of terrorism..

ajab pagal si ladki hai

Meri deewangi daikho Jawaban us ko likhta hooN. "Tumhein kisne kaha pagli tumhein main yaad karta hoon."

"subah se shaam office main chiragh-i-umr jalta hai phir us k baad duniya kee kaee majbooriyan hai jo Meree chahat ke pairon me bediyaa daal deti hain Tumhein phir yaad karne ki Mujhe fursat kahaan pagli!"

"Mujhay bay-fikr, chahat se bharay sapnay nahin dikhtay Tehelnay, jagnay, ronay ke mauqay hee naheen miltay." "SitarooN se millay arsa hua. naraz hon shayad." "Kitabon se shughaf maira abhi waisay he qayem hai magar itna hua hai ab unahin arsay main parhta hoon" "Tumhein kisne kaha pagli tumhein main yaad karta hoon"

Meri deewangi dekho, Ki ye likh to diya usko, .

"Ki main khud ko bhulanay ki . Musalsal justjoo mein hoon. "Magar ye justjoo meri Bohot naakaam rehti hai. Mere din raat mein ab bhi Usee kee shaam rehti hai. mere lafzo ki har mala usee kee naam rahati hai. purani baat hai jo log aksar gungunate hai . "unhe hum yaad karte hai zinko hum bhul jate hai "

Usse dil se bhulaoon, tab hi uskee yaad aye na. Main uskee yaad ka daftar Liye phirta hoon har lehza. Aur uske khat ka ik jumla, "tumhein main yaad aati hoon?" Meri chahat ki shiddat mein Kamee honay nahee deta. Bohot raatein jagaata hai. Mujhe sonay naheen deta.

ajab pagal si ladki hai

Ajab pagal si ladki hai,
Mujhe har khat mein likhti hai,
"Mujhe tum yaad karte ho?
Tumhein main yaad aati hoon?"

"Meri yadein satati hain?
Meri batein jagati hain?
Kabhi khwabon mein aa aa kar,
Meri aankhein rulati hain?"

"Kisi khamosh rastay par,
Kabhi tanha guzartay mein,
Meri aawaaz ka dhoka
Tumhein chaunka hi deta hai?"

"Thithurti sard raton mein,
Tehelne chhat pe jaate ho?
Falak ke sab sitaron ko
Mere qisse sunatay ho?"

"Kitabon se tumharay ishq mein
Koi kamee ayee?
ya meri yaad ki shiddat se
aankho me koi nami ayee ?"

Ajab pagal si ladki hai,
Mujhe har khat mein likhti hai, .
"Mujhe tum yaad karte ho?
Tumhein main yaad aati hoon?"

REPLY OF THIS POST IN MY NEXT POST .................................

ajab pagal si ladki thi

hi friend i got this gazal from some where ...but i like it very much ..... so it's here for you ......

girl that writer remembering in memories ........ now that girl not near to writer .....

Ajab Pagal Si Larki Thi Mujhay Har Roz Kehti ThiBatao Kuch Naya Likha ? Kabhi Uss Se Jo Kehta Thak Main Ne Nazm Likhi HayMagar Unwan Dena HayBohat Betab Hoti ThiVo Kehti ThiSunao... Main Isay Acha Sa Ik Unwan Deti Hoon Vo Meri Nazm Sunti Thi Aur Uss Ki Bolti AankheinKisi Missrey,Kisi Tashbeeh Par Yun Muskurati Thin Mujhay Lafzoon Se Kiranein phootTi Mehsoos Hoti Thin Vo Phir Iss Nazm Ko Acha Sa Ik Unwan Deti Thi Aur Uss k Aakhri Missrey k NeechayIk Adaay Be Niazi SeVo Apna Naam Likhti Thi Main Kehta

ThaSuno Yeh Nazm Meri HayTo Phir Tum Ne Apnay Naam Se Mansoob Kar Li Hay ? Meri Yeh Baat Sun Kar Uss Ki Aankhein Muskurati Thin Vo Kehti Thi,

SunoSaada Sa Rishta Hayk Jaisy Tum Mere Ho,Iss Tarah Yeh Nazm Meri Hay Ajab Pagal Si Larki Thi...!!!

now in next post .....writer wrote about the girl .........jo abhi hai .....kahi to hai

VARUN GANDHI ....? % IS RIGHT

In what appears to be an unfortunate and misleading campaign, a section of media has already declared Varun Feroze Gandhi, Indira Gandhi’s youngest grandchild, guilty of making hate speeches in the Pilibhit area of Uttar Pradesh without allowing him a chance to defend himself. If Varun has indeed said what is being attributed to him, he will naturally attract criminal charges under the existing penal code. But, like any other citizen, he has every right to defend himself. The prosecution will have to establish without any doubt that he incited communal hatred while addressing an audience. A CD believed to contain the recording of the said speech has already been declared as “doctored’’ by the young man who is seeking to contest and win his maiden election to the Lok Sabha in 2009 from a constituency earlier represented by his mother Maneka Gandhi.
There are several dimensions to the Varun episode if one looks at it objectively. First and foremost is his ambition of getting into politics like the rest of his illustrious family. Since he bears the most popular surname in Indian politics, he is naturally bound to attract more public attention than others. Second, he has to live with the perceptions, wrong or right, people have about his father, Sanjay, a man far ahead of his times. Issues like the small family norm, literacy, ecology and discipline he raised are valid even today. Therefore, the sanctimonious attitude of many in the media have led to them visiting the so-called `sins’ of the father upon the son.
Sanjay Gandhi, irrespective of perceptions, had a very shrewd political brain. No one can deny that he helped his mother come back to power at the Centre in 1980. Had he lived, there is no doubt in anyone’s mind that he would have been Prime Minister. But his life came to a premature and tragic end with the crash of his Pitts 2 aircraft on June 23, 1980. Varun was just three months old.
Coming back to Varun, he is, of course, the “other’’ Gandhi. The Nehru Gandhi legacy is, by all accounts, now with his aunt, Sonia Gandhi and cousin, Rahul Gandhi who control the Congress, the party his father, uncle, grandmother and great grandfather had once nurtured. So from a purely political perspective, he has to carve out a political identity for himself.
In doing so, he cannot be seen as using the same political idiom as his cousin uses since he has chosen to be in a different political party espousing a different ideology. If he uses the same idiom, he will be a clone like Suman Kalyanpur is till today remembered as the poor man’s Lata Mangeshkar. He has to pursue a different political path. This is not to suggest that he should spread hatred towards other communities. But like many in the BJP, he too wants to play the Hindu card and wear his identity on his sleeve. His real aim is to distinguish himself and not necessarily propagate a licence to kill.
Fourth, the controversy has helped him come to the centre stage of politics. Until the polls are over, he will get as much attention as any other leader involved in the campaign. This has worried many of the BJP’s second rung leaders who fear that Varun could supersede them in the hierarchy. Now that a change has taken place in the RSS and hardliner Mohan Bhagwat, a stickler for ideology, is in command; Varun could well enjoy a meteoric rise. The RSS will want Indira Gandhi’s grandson on its side.
Last, another dimension which needs to be examined by legal experts is whether the Election Commission was empowered to serve him a notice under section 125 of the Representation of People’s Act even before the President has notified the elections. Knowledgeable sources believe that the role of the EC can come into play only after the President notifies the polls on March 23. Even the order for the removal of the Andhra DGP by the EC was questionable. In both cases, it would seem that the EC has overstepped its limits. In this context, it is important to note that Varun Feroze is neither an office-bearer nor technically the official candidate of the BJP as yet. He will be a candidate after he files his nomination. It is only then that the jurisdiction of the EC can kick in. There are some who have been speculating on the fact that despite his candidacy being announced, his nomination could be rejected during scrutiny. He can no doubt be charged under 153 (a) of the IPC. But, as of now, the EC has no jurisdiction over him.

mohabbat ho hi jati hai.

bachao lakh dil ko ,mohabbat ho hi jati hai. najar akhir najar hai yah shararat ho hi jati hai. safar is zindagi ka taya akele ho nahi sakta. koi,apana bhi sathi ho yah chahat ho hi jati hai.

nahi kuch hosh apna dundhate hain har taraf unko.diwane hain,diwano ki yah halat ho hi jati hai. kare ab unse kya sikwa bhala anpni tabahi ka. dilo ko tod dena zinki adat ho hi jati hai.

agar wo sath hon,apne to gulasan ho ya virana. jagah koi bhi ho misle jannat ho hi jati hai. chupaya ja nahi sakta mohbbat ke fasane ko. jamane bhar ko jahir yah hakikat ho hi jati hai.

yah adat hi nahi yu to kisi se kuch kahe kabhi. magar jab tootata hai dil,shikayat ho hi jati hai.

SLOW DOWN ................

first thing what is the reason ?

The reason for the slowdown is very simple.Its because of the subprime financial crisis. The reasons for that are:1) Government intervention in the mortgage market2) Financial institutions inappropriately assesing risks, and lending people money who couldn't pay it back.3) People asking for loans they couldn't repay4) Interest Rate policies from the US Fed. Originally with low rates, people overinvested in housing. When the rates rose, people couldn't afford to pay their debts. (The reasons for the rate movements were understandable however, rates were low originally to avoid a recession, the rates were increased to stop inflation.)5) Once a few people couldn't pay their debts, they had to sell their houses. This lead to a spiral effect as house prices were pushed down, resulting in more selling, and further downward pressure on house prices.The subprime financial crisis has had 4 major effects on the world.1) Banks were less willing to lend to each other. This meant that they had liquidity issues, or in other words, were scared they wouldn't have enough cash. This meant they lent less money to firms/consumers, leading to lower investment and consumption, which basically means there is less spending in the economy, which is a slowdown2) People started to expect bad things. Most schools of economics agree that when this happens, bad things do start happening, as people spend less money and tighten their belts.3) As stock prices, house prices, etc fell, people felt less wealthy, and wanted to spend less. This is known as the wealth effect4) As a few countries began slowing down, people began buying less goods, including imports. When people buy less imports, that causes other countries to slow down, spreading the effect around the world.

There are two big questions about this downturn for America and the world: how long? And how deep ?

The Business Cycle Dating Committee of the National Bureau of Economic Research (NBER), the panel recognized as the official arbiter of business cycles, said it made the determination the recession began in December 2007.
Although a recession is generally defined as two consecutive quarters of declining activity, the panel has its own criteria for determining a downturn, including data on employment, income and industrial output.
Because of the lag time in officially declaring a recession, some analysts say the worst is generally over by the time the news becomes public.
But John Ogg, analyst at 24/7 Wall Street, said it may not be the case this time: "We still think more pain is on the way."

That message was hammered home with a survey showing the US manufacturing sector sank to its lowest level of activity in November since 1982.
The Institute of Supply Management (ISM) said its manufacturing index slumped 2.7 points to 36.2 percent, far below the 50-percent level that separates expansion and contraction.
Analysts pointed out the overall economy will have trouble escaping deep recession with manufacturing so weak. "Recession fears have now become a reality, and the questions that remain are just how bad and for how long this recession will linger over us." The NBER makes no forecast on how long a recession will last, but said that in the past they have run from six to 18 months. The panel said it has no definition of the term "depression."

"This time around, the recession is not due to tight monetary policy, higher tax rates, or protectionism," .

"It's due to a sudden and sharp plunge in the velocity of money -- what we have been calling 'risk aversion hysteria' -- where the speed with which money moves its way through the economy slows down as both consumers and businesses decide they want to increase their cash holdings."

samjho to tumare liye na samjho to humare liye

कोई दीवाना कहता है, कोई पागल समझता है !

मगर धरती की बेचैनी को बस बादल समझता है !!

मैं तुझसे दूर कैसा हूँ , तू मुझसे दूर कैसी है !

ये तेरा दिल समझता है या मेरा दिल समझता है !!



मोहब्बत एक एहसासों की पावन सी कहानी है !

कभी कबीरा दीवाना था कभी मीरा दीवानी है !!

यहाँ सब लोग कहते हैं, मेरी आंखों में आँसू हैं !

जो तू समझे तो मोती है, जो ना समझे तो पानी है !!



समंदर पीर का अन्दर है, लेकिन रो नही सकता !

यह आँसू प्यार का मोती है, इसको खो नही सकता !!

मेरी चाहत को दुल्हन तू बना लेना, मगर सुन ले !

जो मेरा हो नही पाया, वो तेरा हो नही सकता !!



भ्रमर कोई कुमुदुनी पर मचल बैठा तो हंगामा!

हमारे दिल में कोई ख्वाब पल बैठा तो हंगामा!!

अभी तक डूब कर सुनते थे सब किस्सा मोहब्बत का!

मैं किस्से को हकीक़त में बदल बैठा तो हंगामा!!

Don't copy if you can't paste!

A popular motivational speaker was entertaining his audience. Said he:"The best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who wasn't mywife!"
The audience was in silence and shock.The speaker added: "And that woman was my mother!"Laughter and applause.
A week later, a top manager trained by the motivational speaker tried tocrack this very effective joke at home. He was a bit foggy after a drink.
He said loudly, "The greatest years of my life were spent in the arms of awoman who was not my wife!"The wife went wan with shock and rage.Standing there for 20 seconds trying to recall the second half of the joke,the manager finally blurted out "... and I can't remember who she was!"
Moral of the story:Don't copy if you can't paste!