Sunday, October 03, 2010

lie in a relationship

I am thinking that it's right or wrong to lie to your partner... i did this some time for some reason ... For better or for worse, our romantic relationships are not always as straightforward as we would like them to be.... Love creates both happiness and heartache, opportunities and constraints, joy and sorrow...

is it normal(right) to lie in a relationship ???                           
if you are looking answer my answer is YES....
but not 100% sure ...ask yourself and you will find out.
there are many reason that i lied to my partner
and may be same case for you also...
you can't afford to always tell the truth if you want to keep your relationship healthy..

Women say they want men to be honest but  The truth is, women force men to lie..
most common question woman ask is "What are you thinking about ?" and you simply say the truth "nothing " and the response you got from woman are " you are lying " because if you tell truth also that doesn't matter , the fact matter here is what she really wants to hear and that's the truth... so here man start lying create some story or Take her hands, look deep into her eyes with all the supreme male confidence you can muster and tell her she's the most desirable, beautiful woman you've ever seen....
Remember, she wants you to lie. She expects you to lie. It's all part of the mental games she forces you to play.
sometimes You may feel that it's easier to lie rather than experience/endure your partner's emotional reaction
you don't want your partner to get hurt. In this instance, you're not protecting your partner from something that you've done that might be hurtful to him/her. Rather, you're trying to shield your partner from something you discovered  or an opinion that you believe would be upsetting.. it's normal in my opinion and necessary also for healthy relationship.... but what's the limits ...
there should be some boundary like why you lying to your partner and what's the motive ...  truth is the best policy but not always ....your views most welcome