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Lyrics of MAHIYA

i wish u could see urself the way i see ya

u shine juss like a star mahia

cuz ur my only pyar mahia

maine tujh ko he dil may basaya

tu hi mera pyar mahia X2

tu nay aisee adda say mujhay dekha

dil ho gya nisaar mahia

tu hi ha mera pyar mahia x2

tu nay aisee adda say mujhay dekha

dil ho gya nisaar mahia

tu hi ha mera pyar mahia x2

y dont u tell me mahima

mid at ease

how do u wish to see the loyalty in me

appnee wafa ka iqrar kya karoon

mar jaoon hudh ko jo tujh say juda karoon

tu nay aisee adda say mujhay dekha

dil ho gya nisaar mahia

tu hi ha mera pyar mahia x2

mahai u r i set ma soul on fire

i felt juss like a rose mahia

when i was in ur arms mahia

i cant imagine that like without u where i'd be

im ur lady i'll go where ever u take me

terey beghair jeenay ki khaish nahin

main terey saath hoon lay chal mujh ko kahin

tu nay aisee adda say mujhay dekha

dil ho gya nisaar mahia

tu hi ha mera pyar mahia x2

mahia ur i set ma soul on fire

i felt juss like a rose mahia

when i was in ur arms mahia

i don't care where we go or stay or wut we do

ill take u r bain consider becuz i love u

jaisay bhi haal main rakhoo gay main rahoon

dukh bhi milay to pyar main haans kay sahoon

tu nay aisee adda say mujhay dekha

dil ho gya nisaar mahia

tu hi ha mera pyar mahia x2

i wish u could see urself the way i see ya

u shine juss like a star mahia

ur my only pyar mahia

maine tujhh ko he dil may bhasaya

tu hi mera pyar mahia X2

mahai ur i set ma soul on fire

i felt juss like a rose mahia

when i was in ur arms mahia

Life Path

you can know how your relationships will work out depending on your partners Life Path. Will fate give you a lasting and rewarding relationship?
===> Life Path Calculation

Your Life Path is your primary number in Numerology; equivalent to your Sun sign in Astrology. You calculate it by adding together all the digits of your full date of birth, and then reducing the sum by fadic addition. Former president Bill Clinton is an example of a Life Path (2), his birth date of August 19th, 1946, reduces to a two when we sum all the digits as is shown below:

Bill Clinton's Life Path = (08 + 19 + 1946) = (1973) = (1 + 9 + 7 + 3) = (20) = (2)

His wife, senator Hillary Clinton was born on October 26th, 1947, so her Life Path number is a (3) as is shown below.

Hillary Clinton's Life Path = (10 + 26 + 1947) = (1983) = (1 + 9 + 8 + 3) = (21) = (3) ===> Determining Their Compatibility

Now, to see how a love relationship will work out for a person on Life Path (2), such as Bill Clinton, we look in the table below using their partner's Life Path. In the case of Bill and Hillary Clinton, we check the entry for Life Path (3) to see how things work out.
Note that any of these relationships can work; but the characters and needs of the two people will differ, depending on the match you get.
===> Partner LP (1) Both partners need to work on being more open with each other, and expressing their feelings. You must resist the tendency to to become too emotional when dealing with your partner.
===> Partner LP (2) Both partners are very sensitive and can have their feelings hurt by an unkind word or too much teasing. You both need to work on being more sensitive of each others feelings, and learning to turn the other cheek for the sake of your happiness.
===> Partner LP (3) You are the emotional rock of this relationship, while your partner helps you learn to not take life too seriously. This is a good match, because you tend to compliment each other well.
===> Partner LP (4) Both of you tend to be romantics at heart. If you both work at keeping that spark of original courtship alive, your relationship will prosper and bring you happiness. ===> Partner LP (5) Your partner highly values the sensitivity you bring to your relationship. In turn, they help make you more spontaneous in your dealings with people.
===> Partner LP (6) Both you and your partner hate to argue with each other. If you can learn that the occasional disagreement does no harm, and can help clear the air between you, this relationship can become very strong indeed.
===> Partner LP (7) Both you and your partner are highly sensitive. If you can learn to direct this quality toward sensing each other's needs, then this can be a very good relationship.
===> Partner LP (8) Your partner's rational approach to life will help you to be more confident in dealing with both your partner, and with other people. This is a very beneficial relationship for you. Try to show appreciation to your partner, they get less from this pairing than you do.
===> Partner LP (9) Both you and your partner are very sensitive and loyal to each other. Try to remember that going overboard in trying to please each other all the time has it's own drawbacks. Moderation is the key to making this work.

ROMANCE

Romance is a process to become part (deeply involve) of what we “LOVE”. The subject attracts through its ability and stimulates the person to get involved heartedly - mentally or physically.Romance is deep involvement to the invitation, through attraction of the subject, which enchants and satisfies our individuality.

The process is emotional because the
personality (the identity) is involved. Both brain (attentiveness)
and the soul (personality) have important role to tempt to involve
to seek fulfillment through the attractive subject.

The subject that draws (with its qualities) our attention to act (mentally or physically) is called “Romantic”. The subject becomes Romantic because it mesmerizes and drags towards it.
We can not be in romance with anything or anybody so romance is the second stage of love.

LOVE

Love is a subject what I feel a flexible and spiritual, raises from within the soul. Thus defining love may not be as easy as defining universe, because it relates to our emotion and personality. Love wins when we are attached, rather I say disposed, to the attraction (subject) from our heart and soul. Rather every part of our body submits to respect, praise, please, worship, amuse and what not!!!! Love is an ultimate form of submission to the attraction, which we desirably accept to incline to satisfy the craving raises from within, rather we consider as an honor.

Love is formed when attraction, desire and submission to act combine together in human. When we find something attractive in any look or any form, the enchantment comes from within. Directs to desire may be of any form, and leads to the submission unselfishly is LOVE. We become slave to that attraction as that attraction invites our steep attention to submit. We go mad when we don’t react to reach and perceive or feel the attraction. This natural behavior erupts through mind and body by reaction.

We are attracted to few types from many because they match our identity, personality, emotion and sentiment. The look, smell and feel of that particular, influences our mind and structure and enchants to become devotee. The attraction that matches our personality tempts us to incline to fulfill the desire. The temptation to achieve, acquire or obtain what attracted us becomes priority of our personality. This “obtain” may be by way to feel, smell, perceive, appreciate or attach.

So, in my opinion!!! ATTRACTION, DESIRE, and SUBMISSION, when join together to enchant us is “LOVE”. These three processes of nature tempt life form, to act according to natures system.

by Sadashivan Nair

software engineering life cycle

MBA Vs TECH

why mba?

...hmmmm.interesting question.....here are some possible answers :
1) my dad told me to do so (papa ne kaha tha)
2) had spare 11000 bucks
3) i am not good at technical
4) ROI(return of investment) after MBA is good
5) everyone seems to be doing mba ....so i also joined the race
6) u ask me why ....and i ask u why not ?
on a more serious note...see its all a question of where you see yourself say 5-10 years from now (although very few of us think that long term)......if your a 'techie' at heart you would probably be quite happy to be working on the tech side of things and you can make a great career that way as well.....but if you want any of the following things then an mba probably makes sense
(1) a career move to an entriely different domain say finance or consulting.....it could be done the without an mba as well but then the> struggle is a lot harder
(2) a fast foreward button for your career.....in the corporate world degree holders from top b-schools are given positions of responsibilty and authority very quickly considered to those without an mba irrespective of any amount of 'mangerial' acumen you may show
(3) money.....lots of it ...at the end of the day there's no denying the fact that this plays a very important role besides your work...infact for many it's the sole reason for many who pursue an mba.....the hard fact is> that those who do the actual work get paid far less than those who 'manage' them
have a look at the following statement :
There are 2 extremes in the work arena. On the left side you have the most productive people (who actually do the work). For eg. a junior programmer spends every second that he is working producing actual code. On the far side you have the non-producers ie. people who produce nothing tangible. At the end of the day they don't grow food, they don't help sick people, they don't write code etc. These are CEOs, lawyers, management partners, program managers etc. But the kick is - the left side gets paid the least and the right side gets paid the most so if you plot $ on the y axis its a 45 degree line.

Almost everyone spend their time trying to traverse that line so the further to the right side you begin the sooner you get where you want to go. Trust me - I still am a big geek - but I want money - so I can buy all the cool stuff I want. That is why I moved from the software service industry to technology consulting space. MBA is going to help me traverse that line faster. The most direct benefit I see out of an MBA is that an opportunity of a dream career with a wonderful employer, one who likely would have filed any previous resume submissions from me in the circular file. Save a remarkable stroke of luck, there is no way I can land this dream position without an MBA. With my BSc. MCA degrees, the pigeonhole is simply too deep. An MBA is one of the few reliable routes to a career change.

i agree a 100% with what this guy says. i hope ive managed to throw some light on that haunted question...why an> mba? ...i decided a very long time ago to pursue an mba from an iim.....unfortunately though ive worked like mad things have not worked out (ive manged to screw up cat again)....but that hasnt lessened my resolve...maybe some day i'll be lucky enough to actually get into an iim and see whether all ive written so far is actually true. beyond> your wildest dreams..

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Experience Versus Truth - Which Do We Choose?

Something that we all come to recognize at some point is that experience is a very powerful teacher. The things that we have heard and seen may touch our lives, but our experiences, which combine hearing, seeing, and feeling, have a much deeper impact on us.

My wife is sometimes amazed, but usually confounded and even frustrated, that I have difficulty remembering things we've done together, but that I can remember lines from a movie I haven't seen in thirty years. I've even wondered myself why that is, and the best answer that I've come up with isn't because the movie has music playing in the background, although I think that really helps stimulate our emotions. Instead I believe that it's because I focused my attention on the movie, I wasn't distracted by other thoughts, and in many cases I had the opportunity to see it more than once.
Our experiences are often like movies in our lives. We can play them over and over again in our minds as we remember them, and many of them even get repeated throughout our lives. I don't mean that we experience the exact same thing, but we often have very similar experiences. The things that happened to us growing up; what we observed in our parents, teachers, and others, are experiences that affect us for the rest of our lives. What those memories end up becoming are beliefs about the way things "are" or how life is supposed to work.
A bad experience becomes a fear, the belief that something will hurt us, which we will then try to avoid at all costs. On the other hand, a good experience can become a conviction about what makes us happy and we may spend the rest of our lives trying to relive it. The Reader's Digest did a survey some years ago about people's greatest fears. Oddly enough, the number one fear wasn't death. The greatest fear for most people is speaking in public. How about you? Do you get butterflies in your tummy at just the thought of speaking in front of a group of people? What may have caused that fear was an experience, probably in either kindergarten or first grade, when you had to take part in something called "show and tell". It's likely that you said or did something that made the other kids laugh, which hurt, and that memory has been like a broken record in your head ever since. It just keeps playing again and again and you are convinced that you're no good at doing presentations for groups. As bad as that may be for some of us, there are instances in our lives that can be devastating, especially in the effect that they have on our faith.

For example, have you ever prayed for something and then not gotten an answer? Just like when the kids laughed in school, the memory of the disappointment over unanswered prayer may be repeating in your mind every time you just think about prayer.
Those bad experiences have become a fear, the belief that God doesn't love you, won't listen to you, and never gives you what you ask for. Luke 11:9-10 says, "So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened." Even when Hebrews 6:18 tells us that it is impossible for God to lie, we have all experienced what it's like to ask and then not receive. But should we let our experience tell us what's true and what we're supposed to believe? Or should we look to the Bible to teach us the truth? As powerful as our experiences and the beliefs they helped us form may be, the truth of God's word is even stronger. But in order to take what the Bible says and make it a belief, something that has been repeated and become firmly lodged in our minds, we have to make a conscious effort to meditate on and obey His word. Joshua 1:8 says, "Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful."

The word "meditate" means to mumble or mutter. It means that we need to speak God's word out loud to ourselves. D. Martyn Lloyd Jones, in his book "Spiritual Depression" asks us, "Have you realized that most of your unhappiness in life is due to the fact that you are listening to yourself instead of talking to yourself?" We can either let our past experiences tell us what we should believe, or we can decide to change our beliefs. The way to do that is to continually talk to ourselves about the promises of God. When we pray we should remind ourselves of Jesus' promise "You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it." So the next time you go to God in prayer, and begin to wonder if He will answer you, just say to yourself, "In the past I may have felt like God didn't hear me, but I now choose to believe what He said in His word.

I choose to believe the truth that as long as I desire to remain in Him, and to let His word remain in me, I can ask for whatever I wish, and it will be given to me "Along with the assurance that God will answer us, we need the flexibility to receive His answer. God will rarely answer us in the way that we expect because He has promised to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or imagine . Our expectation needs to be that He will give us an answer that is bigger and better than what we asked for, and we need to start looking for God to surprise us with His goodness.

writer
Rob Marshall

OLD FRIEND

bangalore traffic jams

Donno who wrote this…but this is amazing!! People living out of Bangalore…welcome to this world!! Over these last few years of living in Bangalore, I have slowly grown to like the jams, which this city provides in abundance.

These jams do build your patience and character. Is it a coincidence that India's most patient cricketers, Dravid and Kumble, hail from this city of jams? (Dravid is even nicknamed "Jammy"). Does it tell you something?

Sri Sri Ravishankar...does he get his daily dose of spiritual inspiration while in a jam?? And will I also get a halo after a few more years of this "character building"?? There are, I am sure, thousands of future Anands stuck in the Adugodis and Anand Rao circles, who are plotting their moves against future Kramniks... those poor little Kramniks stand no chance. And if you see a professor-like guy prancing around the Palace road jam, you can deduce that a postulate in Physics has just been proved.

A few days back, I had a thought - If we can have reviews of movies, which occupy only a few hours of our life in a month, why not reviews of traffic jams, which takes up significant hours of our day?? So here is my review of some of Bangalore's famous and not-so-famous jams(in no particular order).

But before that, a general comment - As they say, the taste of food in a restaurant is dependent on the ambience ; similarly, the way I see jams, cozy inside the office shuttle or public transport, is different from the way the owner of the swank new SUV sees it. (btw, if you are the owner of the swank new SUV, don't run me down).

1. The Hosur Road Jam - Unarguably, the mother of all jams. We (ex-) Infoscions are proud of being (once) associated with a great company. We are equally proud of contributing in no small extent to this jam. This jam gives a great glimpse of the Other India - colorful music-blaring interstate buses, garment factory workers, highway trucks, smoke spewing lorries and such. Provides ample food for thought for socialist minds. (Rating: ***1/2)

2. The jams around K'mangala/Forum mall - Definitely the best jams in town. PYTs (Pretty young things), fancy cars, and fancy restaurants; this has it all. But you can't afford any of those. Never mind!! Your sadistic brain can take pleasure in the fact that the guy in the fancy car next to you is cruising around for a parking space, feasting his eyes on the PYTs , while his family is having dinner in one of the fancy restaurants. (Rating: ****1/2)

3. The KG Road jam - To be experienced in the evenings before a long weekend. Every auto/taxi in town seems to be stuck while going towards the City railway station - your hair stands on end, you start sweating, the heart beats faster, and you get the rush that a Michael Schumachaer gets on his last lap. And just as the auto moves, a movie show ends and a few hundred more vehicles pour out... Which was the train that hooted just now?? (Rating: ***1/2)

4. The Jayanagar jam - The puzzle-lovers jam; Jayanagar is maze of bylanes, one-way streets, no right-turns, no left-turns, traffic signals and whatnot. It is an establised fact that Point A to point B, in Jayanagar, can be reached in 6436 distinct ways. But whichever way you take, you are left with a hollow feeling that another route had a better and bigger jam? (Rating: **1/2)

5. The jams around Marathahalli/Whitefield - The IT professional's dream jam; As she sits in the office shuttle looking at other office buses, she can make her career plans. A typical evening in this jam goes thus: Voice from Company A bus : "Any J2EE developers in your bus?". Three guys from Company B bus respond "Yeah" and get down. By the time, the bus crosses the Marathahalli bridge, the first guy is hired as a J2EE developer. The second guy, who didn't know what J2EE meant, is hired as a project manager and the third guy is rejected as he realised late that he has already worked for Company A last year. (Rating: ****)

6. The Airport Road jam - Similar in taste and character like the Koramangala jam but has socialist twist. This jam treats the rich businessman, who will later travel business class on Jet, the same as a poor programmer, who had unusually come to office early in the morning, 3 months back, to buy one of those cheap airline tickets. (Rating ****)

7. The BTM 7th Main x 7 Cross jam - Close to my home, so close to my heart. But alas, the spoilsports at BDA finished the flyover at the Jayadeva circle and brought an end to this jam. But for a couple of years, this jam used to give me pure joy as vehicles of all types created a tangle in the small bylanes of BTM layout. The BDA is now planning a new flyover at the Udupi Garden junction; so there is still hope (Rating ***1/2).

We jam lovers - currently this club consists of only me - have petitioned the government to protect and preserve traffic jams as a cultural asset of Bangalore. Just so that traffic jams are not endangered in the future, we have these suggestions:

1. Build more flyovers - Flyovers do not reduce jams. They just transfer it to the next junction. And in the 2 years that it takes to build them, you are assured of some joyous jams. I am drooling...

2. No public buses - If everybody goes by buses, where will our culture go?

3. Make Tata's 1-Lakh car cheaper by making it tax free - Imagine every two wheeler replaced by a car...The prospects are mouth- watering.

please fell free to send more suggestions :--

The High Performance Entrepreneur

my close friend deepak birthday i brought one book for him because he is crazy about reading
books, but i don't know that my choice is as much good. deepak read that book with in two days
really amazing book, after few month i read that book and i highly admire by this book , then me and my friend thought write review of this book and deepak done almost everything and also publish this article to his company paper and response was amazing
and try to summarize book in below section :--

George Bernard Shaw once said, "The golden rule is that there are no golden rules". But “The High Performance Entrepreneur: golden rules for success in today’s world” has really given some golden rules for all the new entrepreneurs. Subroto Bagchi, co-founder and CEO of MindTree Consulting, draws upon his own highly successful experience to offer guidance from conceiving the “Idea to the IPO level” in the book.

This includes how to decide when one is ready to launch an enterprise, selecting and keeping a team. It also define the values and objectives of the company and writing the business plan to choose the right investors, managing adversity and building the brand.

Starting an enterprise is like having a baby. It is very difficult task, full of discomforts and sacrifices. The very first chapter is all about to access yourself whether you are ready to launch a brand new organization or not, and provides a checklist for the same. The first step needed is to be an entrepreneur is the ability to make personal needs and comforts subservient to the larger organizational goals. The chapter also includes a lot of wrong reasons to start a company people think about. There must be a family of great ideas or product not a single product or idea is sufficient reason to start a new venture.

He writes in his book characteristics of people who become entrepreneurs and first and most important thing is Self-confidence. His own words “'You cannot show me a person who does not believe in herself and yet is a successful entrepreneur” another good thing that he said “If you don't love to make money, do not start a business.”

The examples of Siddartha of Cafe Coffee Day, Gopinath of Air Deccan and Kiran Majumdar of Biocon tell how they look at into the future and started great ventures. The third chapter named "Sensing the right Opportunity" is all about the examples of some success stories like above.The chapter on selecting right team for a start up says that the team-members must be able to pull themselves and others, have multitasking capability, shared vision, personal integrity with transparency, resilience and also sense of humor.There is an excellent chapter on the subject of “DNA, Mission, Vision, and Values,” From deciding DNA of the organization to writing mission statement and from vision to values, every thing is explained greatly in this chapter of the book.
After thinking through the DNA, mission, vision and values, the organization needs to think about its differentiation strategy, which is addressed in chapter number six. In today's world, capital or technology does not deliver the differentiation, it comes from the sustained management thought and practice. This is explained by the writer in very simple words with some very good examples. It is not an option, it is survival issue, the writer believes.The chapter “Getting Good People and Keeping them” describes almost all things about working for a startup company and given nine nice points. In a startup organization employees have to deal with various risks until the company stabilizes and sharing rewards after that, they need to contribute towards the energy (resources of organization), not depend on it while working unsupervised and with teamwork in a low resource work environment.

The chapter “Building Process Focused Organization” gives insight for the need and importance of the process and its relation with the quality. There is very good example of a Japanese monk about the quality.“To be successful in business you should love two things: selling and money.” This, I feel, is the most powerful - yet simple - statement made in the book.

All the chapters are very balanced and have less words then some one can expects from a book on entrepreneurship. I was amazed by the simple and interesting language used in all the eighteen chapters of the book. There is no need to refer dictionary for finding the meanings of difficult words while you are reading this book. Some of the topics that were published in the book are known to the people, but this book made them understand by the impressive style of writing the things. Good read for all of us!!

Painfor IT stocks

News :: Pain not yet over for IT stocks
sensex is falling like a waterfall what u think it's come back ?
how much time it will take ?
what about IT sector reupees vs doller and subprime,
alsoIndia-US nuclear deal.
The Sensex has lost 13 per cent since touching to a record 15,794.92 points on July 24, sliding amid a global equities sell-off. Shares slid on concerns that economic growth might slow as losses on US subprime, or higher-risk loans, might prompt banks to rein in lending.

teri yaad aayi ......

for u only

happy new year

my wish for you.....

During the year may you have
Enough happiness to keep you sweet.
Enough trials to keep you strong.
Enough sorrow to keep you human.
Enough hope to keep you happy.
Enough failure to keep you humble.
Enough success to keep you eager.
Enough friends to give you comfort.
Enough wealth to meet your needs.
Enough enthusiasm to make you look forward to tomorrow.
Enough determination to make each day better than the day before.