LOVE

Love is a subject what I feel a flexible and spiritual, raises from within the soul. Thus defining love may not be as easy as defining universe, because it relates to our emotion and personality. Love wins when we are attached, rather I say disposed, to the attraction (subject) from our heart and soul. Rather every part of our body submits to respect, praise, please, worship, amuse and what not!!!! Love is an ultimate form of submission to the attraction, which we desirably accept to incline to satisfy the craving raises from within, rather we consider as an honor.

Love is formed when attraction, desire and submission to act combine together in human. When we find something attractive in any look or any form, the enchantment comes from within. Directs to desire may be of any form, and leads to the submission unselfishly is LOVE. We become slave to that attraction as that attraction invites our steep attention to submit. We go mad when we don’t react to reach and perceive or feel the attraction. This natural behavior erupts through mind and body by reaction.

We are attracted to few types from many because they match our identity, personality, emotion and sentiment. The look, smell and feel of that particular, influences our mind and structure and enchants to become devotee. The attraction that matches our personality tempts us to incline to fulfill the desire. The temptation to achieve, acquire or obtain what attracted us becomes priority of our personality. This “obtain” may be by way to feel, smell, perceive, appreciate or attach.

So, in my opinion!!! ATTRACTION, DESIRE, and SUBMISSION, when join together to enchant us is “LOVE”. These three processes of nature tempt life form, to act according to natures system.

by Sadashivan Nair

software engineering life cycle

MBA Vs TECH

why mba?

...hmmmm.interesting question.....here are some possible answers :
1) my dad told me to do so (papa ne kaha tha)
2) had spare 11000 bucks
3) i am not good at technical
4) ROI(return of investment) after MBA is good
5) everyone seems to be doing mba ....so i also joined the race
6) u ask me why ....and i ask u why not ?
on a more serious note...see its all a question of where you see yourself say 5-10 years from now (although very few of us think that long term)......if your a 'techie' at heart you would probably be quite happy to be working on the tech side of things and you can make a great career that way as well.....but if you want any of the following things then an mba probably makes sense
(1) a career move to an entriely different domain say finance or consulting.....it could be done the without an mba as well but then the> struggle is a lot harder
(2) a fast foreward button for your career.....in the corporate world degree holders from top b-schools are given positions of responsibilty and authority very quickly considered to those without an mba irrespective of any amount of 'mangerial' acumen you may show
(3) money.....lots of it ...at the end of the day there's no denying the fact that this plays a very important role besides your work...infact for many it's the sole reason for many who pursue an mba.....the hard fact is> that those who do the actual work get paid far less than those who 'manage' them
have a look at the following statement :
There are 2 extremes in the work arena. On the left side you have the most productive people (who actually do the work). For eg. a junior programmer spends every second that he is working producing actual code. On the far side you have the non-producers ie. people who produce nothing tangible. At the end of the day they don't grow food, they don't help sick people, they don't write code etc. These are CEOs, lawyers, management partners, program managers etc. But the kick is - the left side gets paid the least and the right side gets paid the most so if you plot $ on the y axis its a 45 degree line.

Almost everyone spend their time trying to traverse that line so the further to the right side you begin the sooner you get where you want to go. Trust me - I still am a big geek - but I want money - so I can buy all the cool stuff I want. That is why I moved from the software service industry to technology consulting space. MBA is going to help me traverse that line faster. The most direct benefit I see out of an MBA is that an opportunity of a dream career with a wonderful employer, one who likely would have filed any previous resume submissions from me in the circular file. Save a remarkable stroke of luck, there is no way I can land this dream position without an MBA. With my BSc. MCA degrees, the pigeonhole is simply too deep. An MBA is one of the few reliable routes to a career change.

i agree a 100% with what this guy says. i hope ive managed to throw some light on that haunted question...why an> mba? ...i decided a very long time ago to pursue an mba from an iim.....unfortunately though ive worked like mad things have not worked out (ive manged to screw up cat again)....but that hasnt lessened my resolve...maybe some day i'll be lucky enough to actually get into an iim and see whether all ive written so far is actually true. beyond> your wildest dreams..

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Experience Versus Truth - Which Do We Choose?

Something that we all come to recognize at some point is that experience is a very powerful teacher. The things that we have heard and seen may touch our lives, but our experiences, which combine hearing, seeing, and feeling, have a much deeper impact on us.

My wife is sometimes amazed, but usually confounded and even frustrated, that I have difficulty remembering things we've done together, but that I can remember lines from a movie I haven't seen in thirty years. I've even wondered myself why that is, and the best answer that I've come up with isn't because the movie has music playing in the background, although I think that really helps stimulate our emotions. Instead I believe that it's because I focused my attention on the movie, I wasn't distracted by other thoughts, and in many cases I had the opportunity to see it more than once.
Our experiences are often like movies in our lives. We can play them over and over again in our minds as we remember them, and many of them even get repeated throughout our lives. I don't mean that we experience the exact same thing, but we often have very similar experiences. The things that happened to us growing up; what we observed in our parents, teachers, and others, are experiences that affect us for the rest of our lives. What those memories end up becoming are beliefs about the way things "are" or how life is supposed to work.
A bad experience becomes a fear, the belief that something will hurt us, which we will then try to avoid at all costs. On the other hand, a good experience can become a conviction about what makes us happy and we may spend the rest of our lives trying to relive it. The Reader's Digest did a survey some years ago about people's greatest fears. Oddly enough, the number one fear wasn't death. The greatest fear for most people is speaking in public. How about you? Do you get butterflies in your tummy at just the thought of speaking in front of a group of people? What may have caused that fear was an experience, probably in either kindergarten or first grade, when you had to take part in something called "show and tell". It's likely that you said or did something that made the other kids laugh, which hurt, and that memory has been like a broken record in your head ever since. It just keeps playing again and again and you are convinced that you're no good at doing presentations for groups. As bad as that may be for some of us, there are instances in our lives that can be devastating, especially in the effect that they have on our faith.

For example, have you ever prayed for something and then not gotten an answer? Just like when the kids laughed in school, the memory of the disappointment over unanswered prayer may be repeating in your mind every time you just think about prayer.
Those bad experiences have become a fear, the belief that God doesn't love you, won't listen to you, and never gives you what you ask for. Luke 11:9-10 says, "So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened." Even when Hebrews 6:18 tells us that it is impossible for God to lie, we have all experienced what it's like to ask and then not receive. But should we let our experience tell us what's true and what we're supposed to believe? Or should we look to the Bible to teach us the truth? As powerful as our experiences and the beliefs they helped us form may be, the truth of God's word is even stronger. But in order to take what the Bible says and make it a belief, something that has been repeated and become firmly lodged in our minds, we have to make a conscious effort to meditate on and obey His word. Joshua 1:8 says, "Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful."

The word "meditate" means to mumble or mutter. It means that we need to speak God's word out loud to ourselves. D. Martyn Lloyd Jones, in his book "Spiritual Depression" asks us, "Have you realized that most of your unhappiness in life is due to the fact that you are listening to yourself instead of talking to yourself?" We can either let our past experiences tell us what we should believe, or we can decide to change our beliefs. The way to do that is to continually talk to ourselves about the promises of God. When we pray we should remind ourselves of Jesus' promise "You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it." So the next time you go to God in prayer, and begin to wonder if He will answer you, just say to yourself, "In the past I may have felt like God didn't hear me, but I now choose to believe what He said in His word.

I choose to believe the truth that as long as I desire to remain in Him, and to let His word remain in me, I can ask for whatever I wish, and it will be given to me "Along with the assurance that God will answer us, we need the flexibility to receive His answer. God will rarely answer us in the way that we expect because He has promised to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or imagine . Our expectation needs to be that He will give us an answer that is bigger and better than what we asked for, and we need to start looking for God to surprise us with His goodness.

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Rob Marshall